In Nigeria these days,having a good and fruitful relationship has become even harder than getting a job for many people! Lol.I have met many people throughout my study at the university and by listening to their complains about relationships I have come up with this list. without wasting much time;
(1)Being too Demanding on your boyfriend- i know many ladies would wanna eat me raw for saying this but a girl's got to say what a girls go to say(lol) Your boyfriend knows that he has to buy you stuff and give u money,he knows that its he's responsibility but I promise you,he doesn't really wanna hear u asking him. asking your boyfriend often for material things and cash will only make him feel like u are in it just for money...if its money u want make it clear,don't lead a good guy on..limit your demands ladies.
(2)RESPECT YOUR MAN- I don't know how most ladies pull this off but I get so sad when I see ladies talking rudely to their man. its just sad and I often wonder how they enjoy the relationship..I hear some ladies talking to their man on phone and I shake my head,I could argue that they are actually talking to their servants. How can u open your mouth and insult your man?? Seriously its wrong on many levels,if u don't respect your man,u are just chasing him away into the hands of another woman. he will get fed up and leave you one day..Talk to your man nicely,respect he's opinions, and he will certainly reciprocate.
(3)DO NOT ACT ALL INDEPENDENT AND FEMINIST(DOMINANT)- I know ladies of this generation all wanna be dominant,acting all independent and chanting the slogan"what a man can do a woman can do better" or "the man is the head,women are the neck holding it" and what not!! Being a real woman does not mean you have to be the one wearing the pants in the house or making all the decisions,being a real woman means respecting your man and being submissive,listen to him,take care of the home and making your marriage or relationship work..Have u noticed how divorce rates have increased in this generation? Its because the gender's have refused to know their place in a relationship,the bible spells it out clearly,a wife ought to be subject to the husband,listen to his decisions and if u don't like any of them or have a better idea,subtly lay it out to him and make him see your point of view,not by shouting or nagging or insulting your man. Do all things with love and if he loves u like the bible commanded him to,u all will be happy.
(4)DON'T LET SEX BE THE BASIS OF YOUR RELATiONsHiP-sex is supposed to enhance an already blooming and working relationship and many a time sex can stall or kill your relationship growth when u indulge in it too often. sex every time will only make the both of you loose focus on the relationship itself. take time out once in a while to just be together without sex,just cuddle and communicate with each other,talk on and on about what you both want,how you first met and started your relationship,what you want and ask him what he wants..Just stop and think for a moment.
(5)ALWAYS COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR MAN AND LISTEN TO HIM TOO-the major problem with relationship these days is communication,I myself am a strong believer of communication. Do not hide your feelings about something or bottle up your feelings every time your man does something wrong,always find a way to sit your man down and tell him in a loving way that you are not happy with him. Also from time to time sit your man down and evaluate your relationship,ask him things like "Do u still love me?" "What do u hate about my character?" Etc. ask him and get him to ask you too,this is important as it helps to strengthen your relationship and let's you know what your man hates so you can adjust. Do not ever assume that your man still loves you or he still crazy about you or he is happy,always ask him to ensure you are on the right page. Learn to talk and have a long lasting,love filled relationship. U will thank me later(lol)
(6)ALWAYS TAKE CARE OF YOUR MAN-taking care of your man involves physically,spiritually,emotionally etc..Most girls and women these days would rather Die than cook for their men,that is an error but its not so bad if u provide for his meal daily. Even if u don't cook u can arrange for him to eat but its better if u cook for your man,clean the house,listen to him when ever he has a bad day and give him a good massage when he's tired. Being caring is a nature every woman ought to possess,your man will appreciate you more when u care for all his needs,he will be happier outside,at work and every other place because his mind will be at rest. Always cater for his needs and make sure he never goes hungry or dirty looking or shabby. That man u see everyday looking shabby with his squeezed clothes,long beards and dirty shoes,always eating at one restaurant or another has a woman at home who doesn't care,ensure your man doesn't leave home disheveled or hungry.
(7) DON'T EVER STOP TRYING TO IMPRESS YOUR MAN-most ladies stop trying to do anything nice once they are married or are in a relationship. They are like "what the heck? Its not like am looking for a new man" so they just stick on "relax mood" and this is very bad. They stop looking good,dressing sexy,stop calling,or texting those wonderful love messages like before,they just change all together and this is a relationship killer. Try to always make your man fall in love all over again with u everyday,by dressing nice,so that one day he won't wake up next to you and imagine if u are the same woman he met some years ago. Improve on your cooking,surprise him with a new dish u learn t off the internet or from some one,text him unexpectedly,call him when he's at work,surprise him with a gift etc and you will see how much life your relationship would have.
( BUYING OF GIFTS IS NOT RESERVED FOR THE MAN ALONE- don't ever miss a special day in your man's life by not getting him a gift. Gifts are not a woman's thing alone,men love gifts as much as women and it would be very unthoughtful if u forget you don't present your man a gift on his birthday or anniversary. Also,from time to time surprise your man with gifts,like a new shirt or tie and see how much he will appreciate you. The power of gifts cannot be over emphasized,and the result is always huge,try it today and see for yourself.
(9)BE THOUGHTFUL ALWAYS- being thoughtful in a relationship is really important,surprise your man with a call when he least expects,drop by his office some times and just hang out with him,send him a nice love text message and put a smile on his face. In this era of blackberry and different networking sites,u can send him a nice picture of yourself and what you are doing at the moment,this will make u closer to him even when he is far away from you. just be thoughtful at all times.
(10) LIES- this might be coming last but trust me it is not the least,I just dropped it last as a huge bomb. There is nothing that will kill a relationship faster than lies. I have seen most relationships that have been built on lies and how fast it dies. Don't ever lie to your man and no offense but this is common with women. I am not a fan of keeping the past in the past and what not,tell your man everything you have done before, if u were once a girl who used to sleep with men for money then tell him,if he can't handle it then let him go but a real man will be hurt at first but he would later come to terms with it. Tell him about all the men u have dated(that is if you can remember all LOL) ,tell him your real AGE,tell him everything that is important and see how it will bring you together. If u hide it trust me he is going to find out and it is gonna be much worse when he finds out the wrong way and that might just be the end of your relationship. Also encourage your man to do same with you so u can know the kind of man you are with. On the whole lies has never helped in man in any way,all it does is tear people apart. Tell the truth at all times,be sincere with your man.
Sunday, 29 December 2013
Top 10 sex mysteries you might not find in the guiness books of record
From an 82-year-old prostitute to a 500 people orgy and the world's sex record, meet some of the weirdest sex world records you may not see in the Guinness Book.
(1) World's Largest Penis – 13.5 in

The official rank of the largest penis belongs to a man measured and documented by Dr. Robert Dickinson in the earlier part of the twentieth century. This record-holding penis was 13.5 inches (34 cm) in length and 6.25 inches (16 cm) in circumference.
But the living owner of the world's biggest human penis is Jonah Falcon. Falcon's 13-5 inch member has been measured for a TV special, making him one of the few guys who can back up his bodily boasts.
(2)World's Largest vagina – 19 in

The Largest vagina most likely belonged to Scottish giantess Anna Swan (1846-1888), a remarkable woman who set a number of records relating to her bulk. Born normally sized, she began growing at a prodigious rate in childhood, finally reaching a maximum height of 7' 8" at age 19. Capitalizing on her huge size, she joined a side show and toured the country, where she met and fell in love with Captain Martin Bates, another giant who measured over 7 feet tall. They wed in 1872, making them the tallest married couple in the world, a record that still stands today. The couple settled down into married life, built a mansion filled with enormous furniture, including an 11' by 7' bed where they consummated their union. On June 18, 1879, she gave birth to the largest baby in history, weighing 26 lbs. and 34 inches in length—so large, in fact, that it became tightly wedged in her capacious tract, only extricated by the use of forceps and belts. The child did not survive the rigors of birth, but a cast was made, still on display at the Cleveland Museum of Health. Generally the largest part of an infant is the head. We know that the tyke's cranium measured about 19 inches (48cm) in circumference, hence we compute the minimum dilation of Swan's passage as 6 inches, or just over 15 cm. That's pretty wide—the normal dilation for childbirth is 10 cm.
(3)World's Most Prolific Mother (69 babies)

Feodor Vassilyev (1707-1782), was a peasant from Shuya, Russia. Though not noteworthy himself, his first wife, Valentina Vassilyeva, set the record for most children birthed by a single woman. She gave birth to total of 69 children; however, few other details are known of her life, such as her date of birth or death. She gave birth to 16 pairs of twins, 7 sets of triplets and 4 sets of quadruplets between 1725 and 1765, in a total of 27 births. 67 of the 69 children born survived infancy. The modern world record for giving birth is held by Leontina Albina from San Antonio, Chile. Now in her mid-sixties, she claims to be the mother of 64 children. Of these, 55 are documented. The mother with the greatest number of kids that are not tiwns is Livia Ionce. This Romanian woman, 44, gave birth to her 18th child in Canada in 2008.
(4)World's Biggest Distance for a Jet of semen – 18 ft

Horst Schultz achieved 18 ft 9 in (6 m) with a 'substantial' amount of seminal fluid. He also holds the records for the greatest height (12 ft 4in) and the greatest speed of expulsion, or muzzle velocity, with 42.7mph.
(5) World's Oldest Prostitute – 82-year-old

Prostitution is commonly known as the world's oldest profession. Meanwhile police in Tai Pei estimate an 82 -year-old nicknamed "Grandma" to be the oldest living, working prostitute. Chiu went into the business about 40 years ago, after a man she had lived with for two decades died. She stays in the business charging ten or twenty times less than other prostitutes.
(6) World's Biggest sex orgy – 250 couples

Japan has successfully set a new world record – having 250 men and 250 women consent to have sex in the same place at the same time, completing the world's biggest orgy! The orgy was held in a warehouse with a professional camera crew taking pictures and recording the entire event. Each sex act and position was choreographed so that couples were simultaneous in their actions. Despite the "orgy" label, the 250 couples (all tested STD-free) featured in the video had sex only with each other and not with any other couple. The entire event is available for purchase on DVD.
(7) World's highest number of sex with guys – 919 guys in the same day

Lisa Sparxxx is a noted American pornographic actress. She had sex with 919 guys in a single day, setting a world record. Specifically, it occurred during Eroticon 2004, a Polish convention that celebrates exactly what its title suggests, as part of the Third Annual World Group Intimacy Championship. This wasn't just some publicity stunt either; the coveted “World sex Record” had changed “hands” back in 2002 and 2003, when the number reached was 646 and 759, respectively.
( World's Longest Masturbation – 10 hours

A man by the name of Masanobu Sato attended the 2009 world masturbation marathon held by the Center for Sex & Culture in San Francisco and set the world record for longest session by jerking it off for 9 hours and 58 minutes. He came all the way from Japan just for the event, armed with a wide variety of sex toys, and the record he was beating was his own. Last year he set the record with 9 hours and 33 minutes.
(9) World's Strongest Vagina - lifts 31 lbs with her vagina

Meet Tatiata Kozhevnikova, the 42-year-old Russian woman with the world's strongest vagina. No, seriously, she broke records to attain that title. Incredibly enough, she lifted 14 kilograms worth of weights-- almost 31 pounds-- to achieve such notoriety. She has been exercising her vagina muscles for fifteen years, and has already made her entrance into the Guinness Book of Records as the possessor of the world's strongest vagina. “After I had a child, my vagina muscles got unbelievably weak. I read books on Dao and learned that ancient women used to deal with this problem using wooden balls,” she said.
(10)World's Oldest Father – 90-year-old

The world's oldest father has done it again, fathering a child for at least the 21st time, at the age of 90. Indian farmer Nanu Ram Jogi, who is married to his fourth wife, boasts he does not want to stop, and plans to continue producing children until he is 100. Mr Jogi admits he is not certain how many children his series of four wives have borne him - but counts at least 12 sons and nine daughters and 20 grandchildren.
(1) World's Largest Penis – 13.5 in

The official rank of the largest penis belongs to a man measured and documented by Dr. Robert Dickinson in the earlier part of the twentieth century. This record-holding penis was 13.5 inches (34 cm) in length and 6.25 inches (16 cm) in circumference.
But the living owner of the world's biggest human penis is Jonah Falcon. Falcon's 13-5 inch member has been measured for a TV special, making him one of the few guys who can back up his bodily boasts.
(2)World's Largest vagina – 19 in

The Largest vagina most likely belonged to Scottish giantess Anna Swan (1846-1888), a remarkable woman who set a number of records relating to her bulk. Born normally sized, she began growing at a prodigious rate in childhood, finally reaching a maximum height of 7' 8" at age 19. Capitalizing on her huge size, she joined a side show and toured the country, where she met and fell in love with Captain Martin Bates, another giant who measured over 7 feet tall. They wed in 1872, making them the tallest married couple in the world, a record that still stands today. The couple settled down into married life, built a mansion filled with enormous furniture, including an 11' by 7' bed where they consummated their union. On June 18, 1879, she gave birth to the largest baby in history, weighing 26 lbs. and 34 inches in length—so large, in fact, that it became tightly wedged in her capacious tract, only extricated by the use of forceps and belts. The child did not survive the rigors of birth, but a cast was made, still on display at the Cleveland Museum of Health. Generally the largest part of an infant is the head. We know that the tyke's cranium measured about 19 inches (48cm) in circumference, hence we compute the minimum dilation of Swan's passage as 6 inches, or just over 15 cm. That's pretty wide—the normal dilation for childbirth is 10 cm.
(3)World's Most Prolific Mother (69 babies)

Feodor Vassilyev (1707-1782), was a peasant from Shuya, Russia. Though not noteworthy himself, his first wife, Valentina Vassilyeva, set the record for most children birthed by a single woman. She gave birth to total of 69 children; however, few other details are known of her life, such as her date of birth or death. She gave birth to 16 pairs of twins, 7 sets of triplets and 4 sets of quadruplets between 1725 and 1765, in a total of 27 births. 67 of the 69 children born survived infancy. The modern world record for giving birth is held by Leontina Albina from San Antonio, Chile. Now in her mid-sixties, she claims to be the mother of 64 children. Of these, 55 are documented. The mother with the greatest number of kids that are not tiwns is Livia Ionce. This Romanian woman, 44, gave birth to her 18th child in Canada in 2008.
(4)World's Biggest Distance for a Jet of semen – 18 ft

Horst Schultz achieved 18 ft 9 in (6 m) with a 'substantial' amount of seminal fluid. He also holds the records for the greatest height (12 ft 4in) and the greatest speed of expulsion, or muzzle velocity, with 42.7mph.
(5) World's Oldest Prostitute – 82-year-old

Prostitution is commonly known as the world's oldest profession. Meanwhile police in Tai Pei estimate an 82 -year-old nicknamed "Grandma" to be the oldest living, working prostitute. Chiu went into the business about 40 years ago, after a man she had lived with for two decades died. She stays in the business charging ten or twenty times less than other prostitutes.
(6) World's Biggest sex orgy – 250 couples

Japan has successfully set a new world record – having 250 men and 250 women consent to have sex in the same place at the same time, completing the world's biggest orgy! The orgy was held in a warehouse with a professional camera crew taking pictures and recording the entire event. Each sex act and position was choreographed so that couples were simultaneous in their actions. Despite the "orgy" label, the 250 couples (all tested STD-free) featured in the video had sex only with each other and not with any other couple. The entire event is available for purchase on DVD.
(7) World's highest number of sex with guys – 919 guys in the same day

Lisa Sparxxx is a noted American pornographic actress. She had sex with 919 guys in a single day, setting a world record. Specifically, it occurred during Eroticon 2004, a Polish convention that celebrates exactly what its title suggests, as part of the Third Annual World Group Intimacy Championship. This wasn't just some publicity stunt either; the coveted “World sex Record” had changed “hands” back in 2002 and 2003, when the number reached was 646 and 759, respectively.
( World's Longest Masturbation – 10 hours

A man by the name of Masanobu Sato attended the 2009 world masturbation marathon held by the Center for Sex & Culture in San Francisco and set the world record for longest session by jerking it off for 9 hours and 58 minutes. He came all the way from Japan just for the event, armed with a wide variety of sex toys, and the record he was beating was his own. Last year he set the record with 9 hours and 33 minutes.
(9) World's Strongest Vagina - lifts 31 lbs with her vagina

Meet Tatiata Kozhevnikova, the 42-year-old Russian woman with the world's strongest vagina. No, seriously, she broke records to attain that title. Incredibly enough, she lifted 14 kilograms worth of weights-- almost 31 pounds-- to achieve such notoriety. She has been exercising her vagina muscles for fifteen years, and has already made her entrance into the Guinness Book of Records as the possessor of the world's strongest vagina. “After I had a child, my vagina muscles got unbelievably weak. I read books on Dao and learned that ancient women used to deal with this problem using wooden balls,” she said.
(10)World's Oldest Father – 90-year-old

The world's oldest father has done it again, fathering a child for at least the 21st time, at the age of 90. Indian farmer Nanu Ram Jogi, who is married to his fourth wife, boasts he does not want to stop, and plans to continue producing children until he is 100. Mr Jogi admits he is not certain how many children his series of four wives have borne him - but counts at least 12 sons and nine daughters and 20 grandchildren.
The start of a wonderful journey
Ever since I discovered a very nice blog on google,owned by this very creative lady named Pearl,I knew I could do it. I was convinced that I could do exactly what she was doing. My passion for writing has brought me thus far and I know it would also keep me.
Basically, this blog would be about me and you and things I find interesting and trust me, it would be worth the while.
It was necessary for me to give an opening speech and I hope this little note counts as one. Thanks and welcome again.
ENI.
Basically, this blog would be about me and you and things I find interesting and trust me, it would be worth the while.
It was necessary for me to give an opening speech and I hope this little note counts as one. Thanks and welcome again.
ENI.
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